Blue, I know what you mean. I am being so honest with Kt that it scares me. She sees and hears all the bad parts of me, especially the way I feel about her. I don't want her to see me like that. Will she like me when I am so awful? I once asked Bt if she was going to hate me when "it"--the therapy, was all over. I was talking about my attachment to her at the time. She said "of course not", which reassured me. Ts can "see us", "get us", and still care about us because we are human beings just like they are, and they know that.