I don't want to scare Kt. I don't "want to" want to drive by her house and cross boundaries. Do you think it's okay to talk about it with her, though? She said I could talk about anything with her, and when I told her about looking her up, she said she was glad I told her. She said she does not want to get rid of me. The boundary crossing would be doing it, but talking about it is part of my therapy, isn't it?