What about looking on google maps at street level so you can see what the house looks like? Then you don't actually have to go there. And it's not like you will be looking at a live feed either, these things are just captured still images.

I agree with others about talking about it but not doing it. Some part of you is an adult who can put herself in your T's shoes. I am sure if you do that you will see why crossing that boundary would not be a good idea.

It is good that you are getting in touch with the young needy parts of yourself, but all kids need boundaries in order to be happy and healthy. Your T sets boundaries, but it is up to your adult self to help your kid self get used to them. No is not any kid's favourite word, but it is one they definitely need to hear.