What you said..."i seem to have a "thing" for emotionally unavailable men." ...was true for me also. If you choose to go alone, you may find is not true...that you need to have a man in your life. You may find strength and affirmation in being alone, as I have...a time for assessment and personal reflection to discover the root of your behaviors and then, ultimately, your true inner strengths. It's not an easy journey, but, like you, I've always supported myself financially, so what you describe in your situation would not be a reason to go it alone.

Regardless of what you decide, you will find good feedback here on PC. Sometimes the advice is brutally honest, and not exactly what we want to hear. I came here a total mess several years ago. I've rec'd much help and made some good friends along the way.
Love
Patty