I have wondered something similar, actually, so this thread was very interesting to me. I don't know if it's my Ts influence or due to some other aspects of my life that have changed so drastically since I started therapy, but I do have questions similar to velcro's and have wondered if it was me wanting to be more like my T or what.

I just had to really think about it, though, to know that I had those same questions before I met my T. And we have never talked about sexual orientation, even though I know my T is gay she has never actually TOLD me that.