I have thought my T was gay ever since I first met her. Then I became friends with another of her clients, and we compared notes, lol. Also, she talks about her partner, and she has her cell phone forwarded to her home sometimes and then her partner will answer, who is a very nice woman. So yeah, my T has never told me she is gay but if I asked her I'm sure she wouldn't deny it.

That actually makes me wonder...why have I never asked her? I guess because I already know, and it doesn't matter. She is who she is, regardless of her personal life choices. It doesn't influence my therapy except in that I'm sure being in a healthy, committed relationship only makes her happier and thus a better T.