Oh, me again, I guess one other good thing is that I NEVER have fantasies about finding a guy to look after me and take over looking after my needs. That TERRIFIES me. I know that's because I have been abandoned or abused by so many people that there is very little trust - my problem will be to even trust a guy, just a little bit - to take that emotional risk. I feel like the Midday Movie of the Week - Woman Who Doesn't Trust. lol