i understand. i really do. i've been so hurt by some people. i always went to the hosp, wrote cards, etc.

a close friend got breast cancer and i sent her a card every day..from the day i found out.and she was thrilled with those gestures. when i got hit with all of the worst of this.........i didn't hear a thing from her..and i won't. some are givers and some are takers.