Oooohhhh, thanks for this! I've never thought of it that way.

I would do something about the "I could if" if I were you :-) I'd be inclined to reverse it, "Fidluoci" (fid-lou-o-see, has a nice ring to it) and go out and buy a symbol I'd name Fidluoci and carry around with me; maybe a tiny violin (fiddle) like we pretend to play when someone is giving us a sob story?