thank you all for your insight. i appreciate it, even if it's not what i wanted to hear.
alexandria..i'm 57 years old, i wish i was in college!!!
nucking futz, you are also right in your assesment. patty, i need a man in my life, because i have the libido of a 30 year old, lol.
i am glad i found this site. you are all helping me with your posts. thank you.