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I love my therapist, I mean really LOVE her (not in a romantic way)
And loving her means I have to act like I love her, I need to respect her boundaries, her privacy, I want her to feel safe, especially when she is with me, it would kill me to think I ever did anything to make her afraid of me.
Looking up where she lives was wrong, you need to back off, respect her boundaries. Caring about someone means you do what is right for them, not what will make you feel good, that is the definition of being selfish.
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“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
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