Mike, I know that, but it's basically what I'm in therapy for. It's all related to my not being able to quit therapy.

rose, maybe I do have OCD but it's never been officially diagnosed. I'm obsessing about genealogy right now--much healthier since it's MY family, not Ts. But I have the compulsion to look up Ts--I did it before I started with my new T. To check her out. It's so easy with the internet.

I still google Bt to see if there is anything new about her.

So, I suppose some of you think using the googlemaps to see her house was crossing a boundary. I agree with you, but I don't think it's a crime.