What you find on the Internet only tells you what you want to interpret what you find as telling you; what the person does is not the person and you know nothing without talking to that person.

I cannot "decide" or know why someone else does something without asking them. Someone going to a particular church might be because they are stalking a member of that church :-) There are a zillion reasons why anyone does any particular thing; I think that's why Pavlov and his ding-a-ling dogs and all the behaviorists have never figured out people any better than any of the other "scientists".