rainbow, i think i'll sidestep the boundary issue as well since you've already gotten so many comments on it.
i do think having some token from T might be helpful, but i'm not sure having something connected to her house is a good idea as that is her personal space. jmo.
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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I want to be part of her life like I want to be part of all my Ts lives. I wasn't going to post this, but I will anyway. My insight for the week: If I stay in therapy forever, is it like my mother never died?
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it is interesting to me that you'd say this about staying in therapy being like your mom never died. i had thought while reading one of your threads recently that maybe you had never really grieved the loss of your mother. i wonder if your struggle to let go of your Ts is really about your struggle to accept the loss of your mom.
