thanks for all the responses; i really appreciate them

sorry its taken me a bit to get back to this...........

((( byz ))) -thanks for all your help and the ideas for what to do. also, thanks for sharing the websites. im very appreciative of this

((( theo ))) -thank you for all your words of kindness and sharing of your own kindness plus the advice. i really am thankful of you

((( nomoretogive ))) -thank you for the kindness you've posted, it really warmed my heart reading it. im greatful to hear your response

((( fool zero ))) -thank you for your reply, parts were able to get a chuckle out of me, which im glad for, and for you opening my eyes. im very happy to have read your post