Thank you so much TheByzantine! I don't think we have looked at either of those sites..we are pretty much going into this blind. Her pain doctor just told her to wean herself off and has not returned her calls. I will look at those sites tonight.

Paddy....She did tell them that she is not addicted to the Ativan. She can go weeks without taking it and told them that. She told them that she would not take the Ativan any longer...she begged them to let her into the Suboxone program...said she would do whatever she had to. I guess because the are a government funded institution, the have very strict rules and a long, long list of people that want help.

She still hasn't had a call back from any of the docs she left messages with (and now there a several more). It's just so frustrating.