My T has talked about my 'willingness to be dependent' and geez loiuse, I see it now when reading that. My T says don't get hung up on dx's and I don't. She didn't even offer a dx until I read a book and wondered if BPD applied to me.
So, reading that made me think about what she said. It gives me a LOT to think about, actually.
Sorry, I didn't mean to hijack.