ooh, I want to be defensive here. But I will not. I am simply saying what others have said, that we have a greater purpose and that the way we sometimes are unkind to eachother is not helpful. That is why I suggested we lock this thread. If we can learn and grow from it then so be it. I however, do have a problem with people confronting eachother in an abrasive way. We do not know the other and the best we can do is to disagree and state the whys and hows. I am asking for "I" statements. "I" am confused and sad to see Ozzie leave like this. "I" am scared because people seem able to act cruely to eachother on this board at times and that is not in my heart at all. I am scared because I would never want to be treated cruely here. Ozzie, I understand, I really do. I hope that we can stay connected in some way. Sometimes the world just plain rots!