purpledragon,

I think you are doing the right thing by taking her to therapy. Hopefully she is talking in there and that together they can work on her issues.

Just being there for her and showing how much you care can be the best thing, in my eyes anyways, that you can do for her right now. Making sure she knows you are there to talk to if she chooses but isn't being forced is another thing I can think of.

Keeping an eye on things and reporting to the therapist may also help the therapist as well. I guess am not so sure if this is at all good advise, but when i was that age I wish my mom would have been there for me like this. I started at the age of 15 and was irrate when she found out. I think you are being a great mom just by standing by her side and trying to get her help. Keep up the good work and keep us posted.

Hugs,
Jen