Hi, Hester,
I wonder if you might not be experiencing some kind of manic high causing your sexual activity, as in bipolar swing? Have you ever been to counseling or had any kind of diagnosis? What you said...i'm 57 years old, i wish i was in college!!! and patty, i need a man in my life, because i have the libido of a 30 year old, lol....sounds almost irrational. Even if you were free and single, such an attitude would be kind of bizarre, even reckless.

I told you that sometimes on PC, you might hear things you'd rather not. What tamed the sexual beast within me was a series of embarrassing and humiliating experiences over 50, trying to create that "bond" with men who were really just using me. My conclusion became a mantra: There's nothing worse than an over-50 woman making a fool of herself. I'm not saying this to be hurtful to you. Even if you were single, I'd say it based upon your age and stage in life. But add to that the fact that you have a husband who is being deceived, and it becomes much more complicated and potentially disastrous.

Again, I apologize for my frankness, but I'm concerned.

Patty