i hate housework too! always have. my husband, who is home most of the time does as much as his arthritis will let him. i do the rest, but not very often. the house isn't filthy, but it certainly isn't spotless.
i had a bumpersticker on my car when i met him 20 years ago that said
my only domestic quality is that i live in a house.
he thought it was a joke.
it wasn't.