(((((skittles99)))))--what's with the relationship with your child's father?

Do you two get along? Why doesn't he help you with things?

I mean, like, if you two are together (are you?), why isn't he pulling his share of the load?

Could you clarify what this guy does for you in this relationship?
Sounds as if you are doing everything---and that's not how it's supposed to work.

If you don't communicate, why not get rid of the burden of him?
You'd have less to take care of, and more time to get you some care for you.

Welcome to pc-----and I don't know all the circumstances--so if I have offended; it's out of ignorance-------I send you thoughtful hugs------theo