((((((((((((Purple fins))))))))))))))))))))))

I understand how well that can trigger you, I am highly triggered by certain words and phrases that make me think of obejtification, like the word "plaything" or "toy" on the wrong day in a completly innocent sentence will set me reeling and in a bundle of anxiety for a few hours.

It is hard, the usuage of language and how we use "she" as a referall to objects, that use to cause me a bit of anxiety as well on bad days, I counteracted it by making myself go into logic mode, I explained to myself that I didn't like it, and that it upset me, but it is a structure built into our language, and that even I do it. (I named my car Miss Daisy, and call it a she all the time) and I don't do it to "objectify" but I do it because I have an emotional attachment and it was my way of personficating that attachment and I am more at ease using female pronouns and am more likely to because I am female and it is what I am comfterable with.

phew, sorry that was long, I hope that helped some, I know I have to rationalzie and break things down into logic sometimes in order to help deal with a trigger.

I'm sorry you are struggling with this purple fins, sending lots of safe hugs to you.

feel free to pm anytime, my nest is always open.

Lots of safe hugs and thoughts
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