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For me there is no linkage, and SI in my partner would no be in any way arousing.
But your question has no answer that would apply to everyone, each of us is very differant and differant things will cause us to feel in diferant ways.
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“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
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