it'll come. it just takes time. Ive been working on it for over three years and at times I still struggle with it. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be normal then a friend of mine will remind me that I am normal - for what I ave been through and how far I have come. I was raised and lived this way for years so now it is going to take years to undo it. This may be with me for the rest of my life. No one not even the professionals know how long it will take so I try not to think about the hurry up and get over it kind of thing. Instead I think I'll get through it when I get through it. Please don't give up HOPE. In the past I was a part of a real world support group called HOPE. The letters stood for Helping Ourselves through Personal Empowerment. Which means as long as you believe in yourself ANYTHING can happen, you can do anything you set your mind to.It doesn't matter how long it takes to accomplish your goal just that you do at your own pace. You CAN do thiis. just hold on tight to the HOPE