((((((((((((bama)))))))))))))) i can't offer suggestions on what you should do. i've not been in your position. if it were me and i was just starting into a new relationship such as this, i think i'd keep a space while i was watching to see how things progressed. as it got closer and i felt he might go to prison for that long, i don't know that i could continue. that's me, though. i can also see myself loving him enough to hang around. it's just a really tough one.

ok, what i can say with certainty...BRAVO! what a way to think things thru at trying to do the best for your life and knowing self as well as trying to predict anything that might interfere with your sobriety! YOU GO WOMAN!