im new to the forum but have noticed that alot of the self harm talk is about cutting, i only really cut on my legs ,back and stomach as they are easier to hide than the cuts i used to do, i used to cut alot more but people at work started asking questions and i had to find another outlet, unfortunately the other out let i found was burning myself it really does help me but i dont want to do it any more even though i know i need to, i was wondering if anyone had any input as to how i could cope with the desire/need to do burning or cutting without actually harming myself?