hi who. i can't imagine that he'd ask you to get another therapist based on a) a dream that you had that was out of your control and b) something so innocent (albeit inappropriate) as a simple kiss.

i think it's normal to subconsiously think about stuff like that. like you said, you're devoted to your husband, so i'm sure it has nothing to do with that. it probably has more to do with going to therapy week after week for 6 years, opening up and sharing very personal details about yourself and your life, and then having to maintain physical boundries with someone that you're so emotionally intimate with. i think it's hard for people to not comprehend being so intimate in one way, but then being so un-intimate in another way.