Rev Charles,
I agree with you, my husband and I will be married 25 yrs in 2003, I found him out in Oct 1999 had to go through therapy, almost killed myslelf, meds., etc. finally made amends, but yes it is the HARDEST thing to overcome, it is 2 years and I still do not trust him 100 %, but I am working at it, if after all this and if I EVER find it happens again then I am walking cause my heart can NOT take being lied to again, don't give up there must be some good souls out there.
"darkeyes"