I need advice on dealing with my fiancee's eighteen year old son. Unfortunately my fiancee and him have been friends for these eighteen years not father and son. The son is a pill popping pot head. He works maybe one week a month.He complains that I don't have a job, My contribution to this house is my foodstamps and part of my TANF as well as all the cooking and cleaningand being a full time mom to my ten year old. I am in the process of filing for disability due to being bipolar and numerous back problems. The son is constantly asking me for cigarettes and to use my cell phone. I wish he would move out. I love my fiancee but hate his son. I have tried taking to my fiancee about his son but all he can say is I know. He and his son argue almost every day about him not working. He tries to tell me that the way his son acts is typical teenager. BS! I was never a disrespectful butt head when I was that age. I moved out of my parents house when I was sixteen and have been on my own for years.