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Originally Posted by granite1
OMG i cant believe i just did this.i sent T an email saying i was sorry and if it was ok and i got up the guts could i please keep my apt for monday 14th
wow now i just need to get up the guts to show up if she has her secitary call me to let me know that i can .any ideas on this one im gonna feel like a total brat if i go in thare after asking her if i can and i say nothing.this is my worst fear and i know that will happen.but i am trying to make it all right
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This is wonderful that you were able to do this! hooray!
You aren't a total brat, you are a good person who was hurting badly. This might be something that opens up a lot of gentle discussion. You just went though are really hard time and there is a lot to talk about. Not judgements or blame or shame, but the experience and how it started, what happened during it, and how it calmed down. This is great therapy stuff

And these can be very good therapy experiences that end up making us feel more connected and accepted.