my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years. i can say that we have trusted each other and never kept anything to each other. we've talked about our past relationships, families, religious views and pretty much everything. i do feel insecure about her exes because each one of them is pretty and independent, and fun. i, on the other hand, is average and weak and shy. i know how much we love each other because we are still together. recently, i saw pictures of him fooling around with his exes. we have talked about it but i still cant forget how hurt i am. he told me that the fooling around only happened when he needed me and i wasn't there to comfort him so he turned to his exes. His exes supposedly made the first moves and, as a guy, he couldn't resist. i feel so betrayed because first of all we talk about problems that he share. second, i allow him to go out with friends. third, i am absolutely sure that he is satisfied, sexually. the days the pictures were dated were the days when he "talked" to a friend or "fell asleep". i dont know how to trust him again.