Hi Zoo,

ouch, you are in some very familiar territory for me.

If it were me yes I would call again, and I would start with the very words, well you did say 'call me back later if you want to', so I am.

She didn't say, if you need to, or if you have an emergency, but if you WANT TO, so if you want to, do it!

Whether you call again or don't, the next time you meet i know the two of you will spend some good time on this - and it's important that you do so.

My T and I have been around and around about callbacks & abandonment issues at least five times... horridly painful... and the last time it came up, i threw caution to the winds and told T that I'd come to the conclusion that she will never change it - could easily do so, but will not, for her own purposes. She said, but that's manipulation, I don't do that. I told her, I hear you saying you don't but I think you only say that due to denial on yourr part. (yikes )

Today T makes an effort to call me back. I need to be sure to tell her how much I appreciate it. I really do. Now YOU will probably handle it better, Zoo. You go girl!!
SAWE
PS if my T ever does read this forum, she sure knows who I am now....