There is just one thing I would like to make clear however.....from the picture you posted on your first post......I grew up a complete tomboy.....I stayed a complete tomboy.......but would never be a lesbian......so I just want to clarify that not every tomboy ends up a lesbian......it sort of come across that way with the way it's stated. If I had married the right man, I would still be married. To be quite honest, I can't relate to women in most cases because I just can't think like them & am not attracted to their thinking. Just hope we don't fall into generalities.....it's difficult when we make statements like that to not end up having others feel in general that all tomboys in the past end up lesbians (I know it didn't say that, but it sort of felt like it implied it when I read it)......just felt the need to make that statement after reading that.....sorry.