If you weren't feeling so bad already I'd tell you that got me mighty offended. It didn't, but I'd probably tell you that.

I'm a guy - don't ever let anyone tell you that they couldn't resist because they are a guy. That's bull. My wife has been in prison for the last 22 years and we get no conjugal visits. What I'm about to say is going to sound arrogant as heck but I want to make a point...

I've dropped a few points on the cuteness scale since my twenties but I have charisma coming out my butt. I'm a professional poker player, author and member of mensa. I've been on both national TV and radio countless times. I've held national sports titles and made the junior olympic team as a teenager. I have $3600 in my wallet right now walking around money. There isn't a night I couldn't go out and get someone - maybe not anyone I wanted, but someone. Opportunity abounds and yet I haven't. I vehemently and violently reject the 'as a guy, he couldn't resist' argument.

As far as putting yourself down and comparing yourself to her... she's sleeping around with someone elses boyfriend. If I know NOTHING else about her and NOTHING else about you - I like you so much more than her already that it's sickening.