He bascially told me today that he needs more time.. that he was crazy about me and I made him wait and now he's not so sure.. other than he's not ready to commit 100%... Like what the... He said it wouldn't have happened if we got into a relationship when we first met - that was not going to happen.
I have told him to sort his crap out.. deleted him from my phone and possibly my life.
(Just had coffee with a really nice mature, sensible, guy )

I am a bit hurt to be truthful... I really liked him - or started to really like him anyway and thought there was potential for a relationship - I was happier and now I am just confused again...

I have my own issues to deal with and don't need anyone elses for the moment...

Marjan, i am still on the dating site ... had been off it with a 'hidden' profile for a while cos I liked Richard.. but now am back in the game