I think until we really learn to care about others than we see the world through our vision and our past. I made a post here recently about how I was reading an book or article, cant remembee now, and suddenly I felt this strange feeling in me, I was feeling something for the person as I read their words and understood thats how T feels about me as she listens to my words, it was the unspoken coomunication I had picked up and internalised, so yed my T cares, not to say all T's have done their own work, because like any profession theres good ones and not so good, but if someone really cares you will eventually know it.