I think perceptions can be wrong but they are our perceptions and I've learned that I'm very good at figuring out who will be good for me, whom I should trust, and who not to.

I don't necessarily trust what I think or feel other people should do as being right. When I was young, in my 20's and early 30's I use to be "sure" what I would/would not do in any given situation but have learned I don't know that when I have never been in that situation; reading and feeling about something is not the same as experience.