my fiance has a problem with having phone sex to the point that he pretends to be me (a woman) on some websites just to get other women. he will text them as if he is me until he can convince them that i want them to be with my husband then he takes it as far as phone sex and web cam sex with them. if he is not doing that then he will be himself and have multiple women that he has phone affairs with, actual long distance phone relationships, for company, conversations and phone sex. when i find out he lies beyond lying, i have phone records showing all the chatlines and hours upon hours of talking to these women, as well as talking to them myself, he still lies with the proof in front of his face. then he actually gets mad at me and tells me i'm crazy and jealous and he cant handle it, but all i want is for it to stop. it hurts me so badly, but i love him so much and i tried to ask him to go to counseling, i will go to, but he refuses to admit that its a problem, he thinks its normal, he even says he is helping these women by bringing up there self esteem. right now he actually has a woman so in love with "me" (his version of me anyway) that she is going to buy a plane ticket to come see "me" and him ( which are actually one and the same) how do i get him to realize there is something wrong with what he is doing? please i need some advice people, we have 3 children and one on the way and i dont want to lose my family because of his sexual addictions. HELP ME