I'm glad that you are looking out for yourself and your own mental health!! It must have been difficult to set those boundaries with your daughter, and I hope that she will accept treatment soon. Kudos to you; you sound like a very courageous, strong person!!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."