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Old Jun 05, 2010, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Araya View Post
I also like to pull out sweet 'animal-ish' tendencies on my boyfriend - especially when we're cuddling and being sweet to each other. I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with this, in and of itself, and he's pulled the 'hyper puppy' routine on me before as well. I also view having a need to do it now and then as being just as normal as wanting to cuddle regularly. We all need love and affection.

What I do think might be a bit worrisome is if you were literally like this all the time, to the extent where it inhibited a lot of normal social interaction. There is a time and a place for everything, after all. And if it comes out to a degree that is a bit much for him, you might want to moderate the habit a bit, but I don't see that as a reason to give it up entirely. Compromise and all that. Your needs matter too.

Oh, I am also a real animal-lover (in the normal way, lol) and enjoyed 'playing pets' as a kid. I was very close to my kitty too. She was my only source of comfort when things went bad, and I really admired her. I have certain other animal-like tendencies, but these aren't as strong as they used to be, and may be a bit less normal than what you're describing here. The two are fairly unrelated though.
awe this makes me feel better then x3 I'll tone it down and not do it in public n stuff lol

Awe as a lil kid every pet I had I loved and was my best-est buddy ever
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