Sarah, if anyone knows whats poetic its you-

it should have said blank tiles, I hate my typos, but I guess my thought was that I try to notice things like that that trigger good ideas , even though they may end up being dysfunctional (albeit life-preserving) behaviors (like dissociation) they can be good ideas to toy with , like a blank tile being a metaphor. . .

. . .now Im over explaining myself and I hate when I do that too.

Well, anyway Kimmy that was my dysfunctional attempt at being supportive and positive ala your own example here. . .