Bama,

I think it's real important to keep reminding yourself that you've only known this person for about 48 hours, and you are talking about your future with him.

It's really wonderful when you "click" with someone right off the bat, but in reality you don't know any of the real important stuff about this guy. Things like, is he the kind of person who takes care of his obligations? When he is upset or mad, does he take it out on others around him? What kind of things is he going to expect from a girlfriend, and are they things you feel comfortable giving? You can talk and talk and talk, but trust me, there are things that you will not know about this man until you have known him for months.

It sounds like you and he have a lot in common, and may be able to provide each other with much needed support. So why don't you focus on the support and friendship, and try not to fall into a serious romantic attachment until you know each other better? You mentioned that you are going to spend every waking minute with him...maybe a better thing would be to see him a little less often, and keep some time for yourself.

Good luck...I really hope he ends up being everything you wish for. But give him some time to really show who he is.

Jo