there are lots of responses here and it takes me along time to read things and understand so i cant respond to everyone right now when i first read this

i think i can not wrap my head around the fact that a T saying "they care" reely means anything if they tell everyone that.

to me there is a difference between "caring about someone" and "caring about how they progress"

..so it would mean more to me if a T said "i care about how you progress" to some clients and "i care about you" to other clients.

i currently believe that T's really dont care about you as a person, but how you do as a client....see the difference?