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Originally Posted by Solarwind
i think i can not wrap my head around the fact that a T saying "they care" reely means anything if they tell everyone that.
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My first thought about this is that I tell each of my children that I love them. I say, "I love you" all the time to each one. Is it insincere because I say it to each one? I might even tell a friend, "I love you." Does that mean that I dont because I have said it to a number of people? I have separate relationships with each of my children and each friend. And I love them. When I say it, I may be thinking about different things about one then I am with another because they are not the same person. But it doesnt mean I do not mean what I said to each one.
I really do understand where you are coming from. I think when so much damage has been done it is hard to believe that anyone would have enough love or love at all in their heart to say it me or them and mean it to each one.
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to me there is a difference between "caring about someone" and "caring about how they progress"
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Well, if you care about someone in general- say you care about how they feel, what they have been through, how their daily life is going, and how they will have a happier and more peaceful life, you would probably care about how they progress. The two ideas dont seem like an either or to me.
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..so it would mean more to me if a T said "i care about how you progress" to some clients and "i care about you" to other clients.
i currently believe that T's really dont care about you as a person, but how you do as a client....see the difference?
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Or maybe the T cares about EACH one of her clients AND cares about how each one progresses.
Okay....what, Solar, is the difference to you between caring about you as a person and caring about you as a client? I could write here what I think you may mean, but tell me exactly what you think the T isnt and is caring about when she only cares about you as a client.