(((marjan)))--there must be a way to have him blocked. Report him to all sites--have his e-mails put into a file automatically--I do this. Then I delete them.

This is unecessary hardship.

Also, I decided long ago that I was wasting energy "hating" anyone...no one is worth
you eating your heart out and feeling hateful...He's really rather pathetic; dontcha
think? I feel sorry for my Ex--he's a miserable man today (20 years later)--Your Ex sounds pretty miserable too--what goes around, comes around-----!!!

Maybe write him an e-mail about how sorry you are that he's so unhappy, but you are trying to live your own life now; and his misery belongs to him--not you.

That you are very happy now, and you feel sorry for him?----he may just stop--theo