Thanks for sharing!

This touches a core issue that I'm dealing with at the moment.

When the going gets rough for me, he's always talking to me in that calm, soft, caring tone....And I just want to SCREAM "STOP TALKING TO ME LIKE THAT!!!!".....

Sometimes, his tone makes me melt....like someone truly cares about me....and other times, I feel angry and sick to my stomach by it....

Perhaps it's part of the gory inner workings of trying to reprogram what I'm used to with what's healthier for me - and I guess I'm resisting?

UGH.