Welcome!

This is a good site for discussions and contemplations of various issues. As time goes on, you will find folks who have all sorts of ideas and experiences.

I myself also suggest books. Go to your local library or bookstore, check bookstores with book reviews online, and read up on various ideas about marriage, communication, verbal abuse, and the like. Could add to your pool of information, certainly has helped me.

Welcome again and best wishes!

Sarah