I have been with my fiance for one year now and we live together from the beginning. in general we have a great relationship and we love each other very much. we never had any serious problems and we had a healthy relationship. the think is now i realize we appear to have different communication styles and this drives us to conflicts, not very often (every two months or so)but big ones.
the think is that when he wants to talk about something he focuses on the main point, while from my part i see the whole picture, and through explanations i try to make him understand how i think and feel about that issue.the fact however that we perceive issues different it causes us a serious problem. how can i handle this situation and see thinks as he does?