Hello, kyra1986.

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When a conflict arises, who decides what the main point is? Does your fiance listen to you? Is this a situation where your fiance will not consider compromising? Are you always expected to capitulate to his wishes? Both of you may have strong feelings about the topic. Why are you expected always to see things as he doe?

A compromise involves concessions on both sides. If your fiance really cares about you, he would not be so controlling. I see red flags if he has to have his way all the time.

Good luck.